Before the arrangement meeting
Call first even if documents are not ready. When available, bring information that may be needed for official records and scheduling.
- Photo identification and legal name information
- Parents' names, birthplace, education, and occupation
- Veteran discharge papers
- Cemetery deed or prearrangement records
- Clothing, recent photograph, and obituary notes
Decisions you may discuss
Not every family needs every option. The director should explain required items, optional items, timing, and costs.
- Burial, cremation, entombment, or donation
- Care, viewing, visitation, and ceremony
- Casket, urn, outer burial container, and keepsakes
- Clergy, celebrant, music, readings, and speakers
- Transportation, cemetery, crematory, and permits
- Obituary, flowers, stationery, livestream, and reception
After arrangements are made
Ask for a written schedule and itemized statement. Confirm who will provide photographs, clothing, music, and notices, and how changes should be communicated.